It’s In Your Process

Trying to be perfect as a way to escape failure really sabotaged me, both during my dog training journey and in life. I thought I couldn’t make a mistake, because I would ruin what I was trying to create. It kept me in analysis paralysis. One dog trainer I follow says, β€œThe way you do…

Closure

I finally have the words! I finally realize what it is we need the most right now. It’s closure. I am ready to face his reactivity for what it is, a big giant fit. We are not monsters. We were just on a looooooong journey. We are both ready for closure. I am ready to…

Little Girl Found

  I found her hiding in the corner. I told her she was not a monster and she could choose to believe it. She said she did and we kicked that shit to the curb. We wasted so much time. My niece is possibly being bullied in basketball. I realize I am a huge influence…

Re-Framing Missed Opportunities

We walk past them like the unpopular kids from high school. There they stand incredulous to the idea we would dismiss them so completely. Heads drop, shoulders sink, defeated. We overlook them, these moments that could turn into the best times of our lives, passed by without a hint of acknowledgement. Let me set the…