Superpower: I Can Turn Into A Mouse

  How did I get so small? I don’t want to bother anyone. My parents had a rough go of it financially when I was a kid. My dad had to go on strike a few times, he was laid off a few times, his company closed down a few times. He was a truck…

Little Girl Found

  I found her hiding in the corner. I told her she was not a monster and she could choose to believe it. She said she did and we kicked that shit to the curb. We wasted so much time. My niece is possibly being bullied in basketball. I realize I am a huge influence…

On The Move!

I am 2 months into rehabbing a frozen shoulder. It is quite painful, but I am grateful it is finally getting unstuck. The inflammation pushes my shoulder awkwardly out of the socket. My physical therapist warned me it can take 1 -2 years to heal. I cannot accept that. I think with hard work, it…

Perpetuating A Fearful Dog

If you have a dog exhibiting fear issues, this blog post is especially for you. One of the biggest things I needed to change for myself was getting caught in past stories. I have made huge progress; it is one of the reasons my fearful, reactive dog and I have come this far. A few…

Discovering All Moving Things

Wow, so much has happened since I last wrote. I wish I would have actually blogged (create SHORT stories) about it. HA! I will see what I can do to capture the events, I really wanted to sort this out as it happened. First, I have joined forces with three dog ladies. Pretty cool, as…

When Fear Keeps You Too Safe

Fear is a powerful thing. I learned at a very young age that fear kept me safe. I used it often to avoid conflicts or injury. This is a valid use of fear. The trick is, there is a healthy amount of fear, but there is also a shadow side. There is a fear of…

Re-Framing Missed Opportunities

We walk past them like the unpopular kids from high school. There they stand incredulous to the idea we would dismiss them so completely. Heads drop, shoulders sink, defeated. We overlook them, these moments that could turn into the best times of our lives, passed by without a hint of acknowledgement. Let me set the…